Best Affirmations for Someone Going Through a Divorce (33+ Empowering Declarations)
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Page last updated:
01/10/2023 |
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Positive affirmations for someone going through a divorce
| Any troubles I’ve had with my ex I release now. |
| Being a divorcee is just part of who I am. |
| Being single brings me great happiness. |
| Change is the only constant and I will move through this with grace and ease. |
| Creating a new life is an exciting opportunity. |
| Destiny has plans for me as well. |
| Divorce is not the end of the road. |
| Everything is happening as it should be. |
| Everything is unfolding as it is supposed to |
| Getting divorced is better than being in a toxic relationship. |
| Goodbye to nightmares and toxic marriage. |
| He is no more my husband but he is still my children’s father and I will never come in between them. |
| He is not a bad person, he just couldn’t be a good husband for me. |
| How others treat me reflects their character, how I treat others reflects mine. |
| However I react to my ex I’m still a good person. |
| I always treat our children with love. |
| I am a being of love |
| I am a good person with a lot to offer. |
| I am a strong and independent woman and I don’t need a man to complete my life. |
| I am a strong person and will do better in all ways. |
| I am a work in progress and am constantly improving. |
| I am allowing myself to feel all my emotions |
| I am allowing myself to feel joy, laugh, and smile |
| I am allowing myself to let go |
| I am an attractive person |
| I am becoming stronger |
| I am blessed with a second chance. |
| I am capable of loving again |
| I am capable of making healthy decisions for my personal and spiritual evolvement. |
| I am capable of trusting again |
| I am deserving of love |
| I am enough |
| I am excited about this new beginning |
| I am excited to start my new life |
| I am finding peace |
| I am free to be the best version of me |
| I am fully capable of being alone right now and I’m ok with it. |
| I am giving a fresh start to my life and relationships. |
| I am glad that we gave our hundred percent! |
| I am grateful for the lessons |
| I am grateful for the relationship I had with my former partner. |
| I am happy this way. |
| I am healing more and more every day |
| I am learning to love myself unconditionally |
| I am learning to trust myself |
| I am learning to trust the process |
| I am likable, lovable, and worthy of love |
| I am loved |
| I am loved and lovable |
| I am no more on any person’s foot. |
| I am not accountable for any questions! |
| I am not broken! |
| I am not giving up on my life. |
| I am not vulnerable. |
| I am okay, with or without a spouse. |
| I am on my own from now on! |
| I am releasing the past |
| I am still the same beautiful and attractive woman I was when I first got married. |
| I am unstoppable now. |
| I am whole on my own |
| I am working on me, for me |
| I attract positive and healthy relationships |
| I can choose kindness towards my ex, whether they deserve it or not, so that we can work well together. |
| I can find happiness in any situation |
| I can handle this. |
| I can make new friends and discover new interests. My life is not ending. |
| I can no longer stay in that relationship because it was hampering my mental stability. |
| I choose happiness, health, and harmony |
| I choose to be happy and hopeful even though it may seem too difficult. |
| I couldn’t be a good wife but I will be a good mother. |
| I deserve to have a friendly ex. |
| I did this for both of us and our children. |
| I do have any second thoughts or regrets that this marriage ended. |
| I do not care about people’s opinions for me. |
| I don’t have to make this journey alone. |
| I ended it because we were not happy with each other. |
| I enjoy spending time with myself |
| I forgive my ex |
| I forgive my ex for all the hurtful things he said and did out of anger. |
| I forgive my ex-spouse. |
| I forgive myself |
| I forgive myself for all the hurtful things I said and did out of anger to my ex. |
| I forgive myself for getting divorced. |
| I forgive, not because they deserve it, but because my children and I deserve peace. |
| I gave this relationship much attention and care but it did not last. |
| I give all relationships my all |
| I give resentment over paying child support to God. |
| I give the relationship over to the Universe. |
| I had loved her. |
| I have a bright future ahead of me. |
| I have a life, this is not the end. |
| I have a lot to offer |
| I have a purpose in life. |
| I have an ex who always picks up our kids on time. |
| I have an ex who leaves me alone when I want to be. |
| I have an opportunity now to create the life I want. |
| I have forgiven everyone for the wrong they did to me. |
| I have learned a lot of things from this relationship! |
| I have no guilt. |
| I have no hard feelings for my former partner. |
| I have power over my own life |
| I heal and bless the entire divorce experience. |
| I honor the love I shared |
| I keep positive when in the company of my ex. |
| I know I have worth and value |
| I know my ex-spouse is a loving human being. |
| I know where we filter and so I will try not to repeat these mistakes if ever I get into another relationship. |
| I learned a lot about myself in my past relationship. |
| I loved my partner and that is okay if our relations did not work out! |
| I matter |
| I no more have any barriers and obstacles in life, I just have myself. |
| I release all negativity surrounding my divorce. |
| I remain happy whether married or single. |
| I send peace love and light to my ex today. |
| I still care about his well-being! |
| I still respect her and her decision. |
| I tried but could and that’s okay! |
| I will avoid putting the blame on him because I realize we both had our faults. |
| I will calmly observe my emotions with complete mindfulness. |
| I will create a life I deserve and need on my own. |
| I will do good in life! |
| I will get over this phase as well! |
| I will give myself the time to heal and then start a new phase of my life. |
| I will live a peaceful life from here on. |
| I will live and work harder for myself and my children. |
| I will no longer hold on to things, I am learning to let go of things that can’t stay with me. |
| I will open my heart when I am ready |
| I will prioritize my career, children, and myself now. |
| I will survive and thrive, one day at a time. |
| I’m a success at getting through this period of my life. |
| I’m always peaceful when speaking with my ex. |
| I’m now free of any residual anger toward my ex. |
| I’m ok with my divorce. |
| I’m okay with the fact that my ex is dating again. |
| I’m through bad-mouthing my children’s father/mother. |
| I’m through with anger and frustration with my ex. |
| I’m through with bad-mouthing my ex. |
| I’ve decided to be a friendly ex. |
| It is better to end than to make each other terrible for each other. |
| It is difficult but it is necessary! |
| It is getting easier day by day |
| It is okay to feel a little happy, but I am glad this happened. |
| It’s ok to feel lost at times this is only a temporary situation. |
| It’s okay to be divorced. |
| It’s okay to be happily single. |
| It’s okay to be peaceful during the divorce process. |
| It’s okay to retain a friendship with my ex-spouse. |
| Marriage fails, so did mine and that is fine. |
| Mistakes I made during the marriage do not define me. |
| My children are my strength! |
| My ex always pays child support and on time. |
| My ex and I agree on the amount of child support. |
| My ex and I are equal in the eyes of God. |
| My heart is healing. |
| My heart is opening up to new possibilities |
| My marriage ended not my life. |
| My relationship with my ex is improving daily. |
| My wounds are healing |
| Now I can focus on my career. |
| Parting our ways away is the wisest decision. |
| People change and make mistakes so did I, not a big deal! |
| Relationships are an opportunity for me to learn and grow |
| The anger I’ve held toward my ex is now dissipating. |
| The way I see my ex is a reflection of how I view myself. |
| There is a bright spirit within my ex and I see that now. |
| There is no point in staying in a marriage where we both do not respect each other. |
| There is something better waiting for me |
| There’s no reason to be embarrassed or ashamed of my divorce. |
| These affirmations will help me make better choices in my life. |
| This has to be and so it is happening. |
| This is an inevitable bliss! |
| This is just a small part of my story |
| This is not a climax! |
| This is not the end of my life, but the beginning of a new chapter. |
| This marriage could not work doesn’t mean I will close the gate of my heart. |
| We are ending on a happy note. |
| We both are not good for each other. |
| What my ex says in the heat of the moment does not define me. |
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