Does My Girlfriend Have BPD Quiz (34 Items)
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This blogpost will be covering a quiz through which you will be able to understand if your girlfriend has Borderline Personality Disorder or BPD.
Does My Girlfriend Have BPD Quiz
Go through the statements given below, and pick the answer that relates to your girlfriend the most.
1. Your girlfriend is very clingy.
a. Yes
b. No
2. Your girlfriend needs to know where you are all the time.
a. Yes
b. No
3. Your friends have called your girlfriend weird or odd.
a. Yes
b. No
4. Your girlfriend can become angry very easily and intensely.
a. Yes
b. No
5. Your girlfriend often changes her perceptions of others and you quite easily.
a. Yes
b. No
6. She has tried to break up with you more than often in a dramatic manner.
a. Yes
b. No
7. She has manipulated and twisted your words to mean something else than you originally intended.
a. Yes
b. No
8. Your relationship with your girlfriend can be called intense.
a. Yes
b. No
9. Your girlfriend has only complained about everything that you do.
a. Yes
b. No
10. You have tried to hide your feelings and emotions from your girlfriend.
a. Yes
b. No
11. Your girlfriend can be quite moody.
a. Yes
b. No
12. She gets very jealous when you talk to others.
a. Yes
b. No
13. Your girlfriend does not like it when you do things without her.
a. Yes
b. No
14. She has tried to harm herself, in a non-suicidal manner many times.
a. Yes
b. No
15. She is quite impulsive and makes poor decisions very quickly.
a. Yes
b. No
16. She finds it hard to hold down jobs for a long time.
a. Yes
b. No
17. She has a poor relationship with her friends.
a. Yes
b. No
18. She takes up new interests and hobbies all of a sudden and becomes very passionate about them.
a. Yes
b. No
19. She has made you feel like you are the most important person in the world many times, and soon changed her perception of you.
a. Yes
b. No
20. She goes into depressive phases many times for no particular reason.
a. Yes
b. No
21. Your girlfriend has frequently expressed a fear that you might leave her, even if you have never tried to do so.
a. Yes
b. No
22. She has constantly asked you if you truly love her.
a. Yes
b. No
23. Your girlfriend has not reacted well when you have picked up a new hobby or an interest.
a. Yes
b. No
24. You have not been able to predict your girlfriend’s reactions and personality for the day.
a. Yes
b. No
25. You have tried your best to not ask anything or any favors from your girlfriend because you know this will lead to a fight.
a. Yes
b. No
26. For the majority of your relationship, you have not been happy.
a. Yes
b. No
27. You have had to cancel plans and dates at the very last minute, because of your girlfriend’s moodiness.
a. Yes
b. No
28. She has often given you the silent treatment and only responds when you are the first to make an attempt to communicate.
a. Yes
b. No
29. You feel like you are being constantly tested in what you will and will not do in this relationship.
a. Yes
b. No
30. She has a history of taking part in dangerous behaviors like reckless driving.
a. Yes
b. No
31. Your girlfriend has a drinking problem or a drug abuse problem.
a. Yes
b. No
32. Sometimes you feel that your girlfriend acts very dissociated and out of touch with reality.
a. Yes
b. No
33. She has a long history of unstable and intense relationships.
a. Yes
b. No
34. Your friends have asked you to break up with her.
a. Yes
b. No
Results
If your responses to the statements were mostly ‘Yes’, it can mean that your girlfriend may have Borderline Personality Disorder. Similarly, if your answers were mostly ‘No’, she may not exactly have BPD.
This quiz is not meant to be an accurate test for Borderline Personality Disorder. But, it can prove very useful if you are trying to improve your awareness about your girlfriend and her mental health issues.
If you truly feel that your girlfriend has BPD, you can try encouraging her for treatment. You can also make your home environment more stable so that she feels safe enough to open up. BPD cannot be cured, but does respond well to psychotherapy and medication.
Conclusion
This blogpost has covered a quiz through which you will be able to understand if your girlfriend has Borderline Personality Disorder or BPD.
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