Best Affirmations for Abuse Victims (35+ Healing Words)

Affirmations for abuse victims

• This was not my fault. I am not stupid or dumb that I was “duped.” They are the abuser. They own that. I did what I needed to, to survive. I am courageous and strong.
• I don’t need to keep seeking others’ validation to tell me that what they did was f@cked up. I know that they abused me and I am not to blame. I don’t need to beat myself up for not getting out sooner. And if I’m not able to leave yet, I will do something each day to move forward. Call and talk to advocate at domestic shelter or hotline, write down and journal or record what he says and is doing, so I can re-read it often or listen, so not to stay in denial. I may not be able to leave today, but I’m going to make steps to do so. I can start by being gentle with myself and taking time out to do something I like by myself or with a friend, even if it is a walk in nature or a hobby.
• My soul is beautiful and I am worthy and lovable! I will concentrate on myself, learn to love myself, be independent and yet reach out for support only to healthy people, build self-reliance and learn all I can about narcissism, so I know the early signs and red flags to keep them out of my life in the future.
• We may be a victim of abuse, but we have courage and strength and learned how to survive; we left and now we will thrive like we never have before!
• Freedom, sweet freedom, is our reward! Use it wisely and spend it on learning to care, respect and love ourselves.
• We will learn to set boundaries, and when people cross them, let them know unequivocally they have crossed them. A reminder is fine the first time. A second time, walk away.
• Work with a therapist or attend a group, but remember, sitting in the negativity and re-living moments or obsessing is time spent on THEM! They have taken so much of our energy. Set a timer, only allow a certain amount of time to be talking about the abuse and the Narcissist. Then stop. Let the negativity go out of your body through meditation or song or nature, and pull the positive energy in from the Universe.
• God Bless and sending positive vibes your way. I always keep my fellow survivors in my meditations or prayers. Know that healing takes place, be patient, but continue your self discovery journey. It will be well worth it. And YOU are worth it! Much love!
• I have succeeded before, I can do it once more.
• You got this
• Every small step I take forwards makes a big difference.
• I trust myself
• I believe in my instincts and my judgment
• I am confident. I am capable.
• My strength will help me continue to rise
• I honor who I am.
• I have the courage to say no. I have the bravery to stand up for myself.
• I’m worthy of love just as I am.
• My flaws don’t make me unloveable or deserving of violence.
• It wasn’t in my head; they just made it seem that way.
• I made the right decision.
• My home should be a haven of peace, warmth, and safety.
• I am a whole person. I complete myself.
• I am able to make decisions on my own.
• This is my body, and I’m going to take care of it the best I can.
• When I’m struggling with feelings of distrust, I will give myself space to process them.
• Making life changes is difficult. It won’t always feel easy, but I can do this.
• My intuition is a helpful guide.
• I am healing slowly but surely.
• I know that recovery is neither linear nor time-bound. I go at my own pace.
• I accept myself as I am.
• I won’t always be perfect, because perfection isn’t real. But I will be doing the best that I can.
• When I can’t do my best, I will give myself grace.
• I deserve to set and maintain boundaries.
• I don’t have to forgive or forget. That doesn’t make me a bad person.
• When times are difficult, I know I have people I can turn to for support.
• I didn’t do anything to cause this. The blame for abuse lies with my abuser, not with me.
• I am not defined by what has happened to me. I’m in control of my own story.
• Strength flows through me constantly.
• My courage is stronger than my fear.
• I am not alone.
• I have the ability to create the life I desire.
• I am capable of manifesting confidence.
• Survivors of abuse like me are the most powerful people in this world.
• My voice is one of strength and power.
• Every day I wake up with new strength.
• I am becoming a better version of myself one day at a time.
• I am stronger than all of the challenges life throws at me.
• I deserve to receive all the love and support I need.
• I have survived everything in my past and I can survive everything in my future.
• I am capable of healing and reaching my greatest dreams.
• My heart shines of the power to help me face any difficulty.
• I am worthy of respect.
• I am opening my heart and learning to trust again.
• I have firm boundaries and the strength to stick to them.
• Everything will work out for my highest good.
• I am changing in positive ways. I am making peace with my past and accepting myself.
• I make healthy choices and choose to love myself a bit more every day.
• I have the full support of my friends and family.
• I am capable of transforming negative experiences into something positive.
• No one can take my truth away from me. I speak my truth, even if my voice shakes.
• Empowerment is something that sings through my every action.
• I do not allow my past to control my future.
• The strength I had to survive is still with me today.
• I am healing slowly, but surely, day by day one step at a time.
• I am making self-care a priority.
• I am putting the past well and truly behind me to focus on the present and future.
• I know and trust my own mind.
• No one can take my strength from me.
• I will remain empowered even in the face of antagonism.
• I can do amazing things with my life.
• My strength is in my softness.
• I am powerful and capable no matter what emotion I’m feeling.
• I am in control of my thoughts, my words, and my life.
• It is not my fault.
• Today, I choose to focus on the things I can control.
• I survived the abuse I faced, meaning that I have been empowered from the day I was born.
• I trust my ability to make the right decisions for me.
• I am safe.
• I am in this present moment and all is well.
• I am surrounded by love.
• I am cocooned in the loving energy of the Universe.
• I am letting go and calming, knowing that it is completely safe to do so.
• I am supported.
• I am secure.
• I am willing to believe in my ability to create healing and happiness.
• I am allowing myself to believe I deserve to heal.
• I am choosing to heal.
• I am allowing myself the time and space for my soul to heal.
• I am allowing my body to become an environment for health and healing.
• I am coming from a place of non-judgement as I accept my various emotions.
• I am gentle with myself through the healing process.
• I am allowing myself to ask for help.
• I am allowing myself to talk about my experiences and feelings and I am taking care of myself through that process.
• I am allowing myself to see that that was then and this is now – I am living in the present and I determine my future.
• I am allowing myself to see that it is ok to not be ok sometimes, that healing is not linear.
• I am allowing myself to believe that the world is safe.
• I am allowing myself to believe that it is safe to trust.
• I am allowing myself to believe that it was not my fault.
• I am allowing myself to believe that I matter.
• I am allowing myself to believe that I am enough.
• I am allowing myself to believe that I am not fundamentally flawed or damaged. I finally accept the truth that I am perfect, whole, complete and fundamentally loveable exactly as I am.
• I am allowing myself to believe that I deserve to exist, that I am a very special gift to this world.
• I am allowing myself to believe that I deserve to be loved and treated well.
• I am allowing myself to believe that I deserve a wonderful, happy life.
• It is time to heal and I choose to be in alignment with my body and spirit’s way of doing that.
• I am finding the best modes of healing for me at this time.
• I am ready for healing now.
• I am connecting to the infinite energy stream of the Universe now and I am allowing myself to receive all of the healing that I need.
• I am allowing all physical trauma to be released from my body and being now.
• I am allowing all emotional trauma to be released from my body and being now.
• I am allowing all mental trauma to be released from my body and being now.
• I am allowing every cell in my body, mind and energy system to be completely healed now.
• I am connecting with pure life force energy and I am allowing healing light to fill my body now.
• I am allowing my entire energy system to be rebalanced and cleansed.
• I am now free of all disruptions and blockages that occurred through trauma or stress, and a harmonious flow of energy across my whole system has been restored.
• I am healed.
• I am renewed.
• I am revitalised.
• I am free.
• I am free to live a wonderful life, knowing that I am safe, I am loved and that I am perfect,whole and complete.
• I am aware that every experience in my life is an opportunity for growth.
• I am ready to forgive.
• I am giving myself the gift of forgiveness.
• I am forgiving now.
• I am freeing myself from the prison of resentment.
• I am forgiving all those in my past for their wrongdoings.
• I am forgiving all painful past experiences.
• I am forgiving myself.
• I am forgiving and totally releasing the past, and I am free.
• As I breathe in now, I feel a huge weight has been lifted. I feel light, full of love and free.
• I am enjoying this wonderful feeling now.
• I am deserving of the best life has to offer.
• I am gentle with myself as I cultivate new thoughts and watch my life change and grow.
• It is safe for me to feel happy.
• It is safe for me to be me.
• It is safe for me to feel comfortable in my body.
• It is safe for me to love and to be loved.
• It is safe for me to want and to be wanted.
• It is safe for me to be at peace.
• It is safe for me to express myself.
• It is safe for me to make mistakes.
• It is safe for me to be present and live in the moment.
• I am aware that whatever I think and feel creates my reality. I am therefore choosing to think healthy, positive thoughts about my body, my being and my world.
• I am in control of my life.
• I am whole.
• I am fully integrated.
• I am centred and grounded.
• I am calm and connected.
• I am peaceful and empowered.
• I am strong and courageous.
• I am kind and gentle.
• I am joyful.
• I am creating a secure, fulfilling, joyful life for myself.
• I am validating myself on a daily basis.
• I am treating myself with love and kindness.
• I am speaking words of love to myself.
• I am looking after myself.
• I am taking full responsibility for my life.
• I am being mindful and aware of my feelings and thoughts.
• I am giving myself what I need.
• I am healthily parenting myself.
• I am healthily regulating and soothing my emotions.
• I am honouring myself.
• I am respecting myself.
• I am valuing and honoring my boundaries.
• I am engaging in healthy, positive relationships with others.
• I am loving and nurturing myself.
• I am aware that I am enough.
• I am allowing myself to make mistakes.
• I am encouraging myself.
• I am praising myself.
• I am discovering myself.
• I am allowing my authentic self to blossom.
• I am giving myself unconditional love.
• My complete sense of well-being permeates every inch of my body and spirit with infinite love on a daily basis and I am renewed.
• I am living fully aware that I have everything I need within me.
• I have complete, unconditional love within me.
• I have a protector within me.
• I have strength within me.
• I have security within me.
• I have peace within me.
• I have reassurance within me.
• I have kindness within me.
• I have compassion within me.
• I have wisdom within me.
• I have happiness within me.
• I have wellbeing within me.
• I have worthiness within me.
• On a daily basis, I am breathing in deeply, knowing that I am a powerful soul, with a capacity to completely heal, renew and create a magical life for myself – and I am!
• I am trusting myself.
• I am trusting my feelings.
• I am trusting my intuition.
• I am trusting myself to always be responsible for my life.
• I am trusting myself to always protect myself.
• I am trusting myself to always put down healthy boundaries for myself.
• I am trusting myself to always respect and honour myself.
• I am trusting myself to always look after myself.
• I am trusting myself to always regulate and soothe my emotions.
• I am trusting myself to always nurture and love myself with kindness.
• I am trusting myself to always be gentle, patient and compassionate with myself.
• I am trusting myself to always listen to my inner wisdom and to guide myself.
• I am trusting myself to always encourage, support and praise myself.
• I am trusting myself to always love myself unconditionally.
• I am trusting myself and I deserve to be given this trust because I am 100% there for myself and I always will be.
• I am taking the time to breathe deeply and to count my blessings. Gratitude is woven throughout the tapestry of my life.
• I am grateful.
• I am grateful for my ability to forgive.
• I am grateful for my teachers.
• I am grateful for my lessons.
• I am grateful for my ability to let go.
• I am grateful for my ability to heal.
• I am grateful for my ability to create a healthy, deeply loving, peaceful inner world.
• I am grateful for my ability to create an abundant life which brings me joy in every area.
• I am really loving and appreciating myself.
• I am sending love and gratitude to every cell of my body and every part of my spirit now.
• Thank you.