Hey Optimist Minds!
A soulmate is a person ideally suited to you with whom you feel a deep or natural affinity. Most people seek a soulmate to spend the rest of their life with. It is a common belief that once you’ve found each other, your life starts feeling complete.
But how can you be sure that the person you’re with is your soulmate? There’s no such thing as a perfect relationship. So, it can get a bit confusing when you’re crazy about each other but the relationship has its ups and downs.
Moreover, many people think that true love is incomplete without passion and drama. Unfortunately, when your attachment to your partner is toxic, it feels like they’re your soulmate even though it’s not true.
In this video, we will describe seven signs you just found your soulmate. These signs indicate that you’re in a healthy and loving relationship with a good chance of success, provided that both partners keep making efforts to nurture their bond.
After all, true soulmates motivate each other to put in the hard work required in committed relationships.
So, let’s begin!
You can be yourself in front of them.
Your soulmate is ideal for you because you can be your authentic self in front of them. There’s no need to feel anxious or insecure about revealing certain sides of your identity because they make you feel comfortable in your own skin.
Some romantic partners may have expected you to be a certain way or discard parts of your personality to make it work. In contrast, your soulmate puts no such pressure on you to be someone you’re not because they are in love with the real you.
You can rely on them.
What’s the point of having a soulmate if you can’t depend on them in times of need? Since soulmates are meant to spend their lives together, they need to be a reliable source of support and care for each other.
You can be sure that your partner is your soulmate if they’ve always been there for you whenever you were facing tough times. Your soulmate will show up when needed, listen attentively, and help you find solutions or in whatever way they can.
They make an effort to get along with your friends and family.
If they’re going to be a part of your life for the rest of your days, they need to build a relationship with other important figures in your life. A soulmate will try their best to ensure that they blend into your life by being nice to your loved ones.
A big green flag is if your friends and family start feeling that they can rely on your partner for help. It could be something major like support during illness or grief. Or, it could be for less serious things like helping someone going through a transition like a divorce or a career change.
They accept you for your flaws.
We all have our quirks and shortcomings that may be annoying or inconvenient to others. However, your soulmate will accept all of you, good bits and bad bits included. They’ll love you for everything that makes you who you are.
That doesn’t mean that they won’t get annoyed too every now and then. People are allowed to have negative feelings for someone they deeply love. Nevertheless, the annoyance won’t replace or decrease the love and affection they have for you.
You can resolve conflicts through communication.
Relationships cannot survive without open and honest communication. That’s because conflict is a natural and inevitable part of any relationship.
The only healthy way to deal with it is through constructive communication, where everyone involved gets a chance to speak about their concerns and the others listen to collectively find a solution.
If you’ve found your soulmate, you’ll be able to resolve any disagreement through this technique instead of having ugly fights.
You’re loyal to each other.
Soulmates are supposed to be faithful to each other. This loyalty isn’t just limited to avoiding adultery.
It also includes being faithful in all of your promises, keeping your word, following through on your plans and sticking with your partner until the end
If you share this special bond with someone, they’re likely your soulmate.
You make each other better people.
Probably the best part of having a soulmate is that they inspire you to become a better version of yourself.
Whether it’s sharpening your strengths, learning new skills, overcoming your weaknesses or finding out more about yourself, your soulmate will be the one standing by your side as your cheerleader. More importantly, you’ll do the same for them.
If you’re with someone like that, you can confidently say you’ve found your soulmate.
Did any of these signs remind you of your romantic partner? Do you think you’ve found your soulmate? Let us know your thoughts in the comments. We’d love to hear from you.
A link for further reading and the studies & references used in the making of this video are mentioned in the description below.
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